In 2024 The Lord laid it on my heart to "teach" my book each entry every night for 90 nights. It is my prayer that the Lord will meet you where you are as you follow this series. At the very least you will have a bird's eye view into the mind and heart of a woman, mother and ultimately a DAUGHTER of the King redeemed, restored and refreshed.

40 Day Love Dare Challenge

Spend 40 days falling back in love with your spouse.  Spend 40 days rekindling the FIRST LOVE that drew you to them.  Spend 40 days esteeming your spouse above yourself.  Spend 40 days learning how to love yourself so that you can love your spouse better.  

PDF Daily Challenges

Find the challenges in "mini" form here. Each day has its own challenge with supporting scripture.

LOVE DARE QUIZ

How are you loving your spouse? You think you are doing well? Not sure? Take the evaluation to see and make adjustments BEFORE the challenge begins.

40 Days of Love Challenge in Videos

Each day below has the video recap of the day's challenge as well as the prep for the upcoming challenge.  Join us on Youtube for the Replay. 

Will you take the challenge?

Marriage is God's idea. (Genesis 2:18-25) It has been from the beginning of time however some of us have not valued it. It is up to us to determine that our marriage is worth having and saving.

Day 1: Love Is Patient (Acceptance)

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2 NIV

Day 2: Love Is Kind (Affection)

Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Ephesians 4:32

Day 3: Love Is Not Selfish (Attention)

Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor. Romans 12:10

Day 4: Love Is Thoughtful (Attention)

How precious also are Your thoughts to me... How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand. Psalm 139:17-18

Day 5: Love Is Not Rude (Apology)

He who blesses his friend with a loud voice early in the morning, it will be reckoned a curse to him. Proverbs 27:14

Day 6: Love Is Not Irritable (Acceptance)

He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit, than he who captures a city. Proverbs 16:32

Day 7: Love Believes The Best

[Love] believes all things, hopes all things. 1 Corinthians 13:7

Day 8: Love Is Not Jealous (Allowing)

Love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire. Song of Solomon 8:6 NIV

Day 9: Love Makes Good Impressions (Affection)

Greet one another with a kiss of love. 1 Peter 5:14

Day 10: Love Is Unconditional (Acceptance)

God demonstrated His own love towards us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8

Day 11: Love Cherishes

Husbands ought also to love their wives as their own bodies. Ephesians 5:28

Day 12: Love Lets The Other Win

Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. Philippians 2:4

Day 13: Love Fights Fair

If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.

Day 14: Love Takes Delight

Enjoy life with the wife you love all the days of your fleeting life. Ecclesiastes 9:9 HCSB

Day 15: Love Is Honorable

Live with your wives in an understanding way...and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life. 1 Peter 3:7

Day 16: Love Intercedes

Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers. 3 John 2

Day 17: Love Promotes Intimacy

He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends. Proverbs 17:9 NIV

Day 18: Love Seeks To Understand

How blessed is the man who finds wisdom, and the man who gains understanding. Proverbs 3:13

Day 19: Love Is Impossible

Let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. 1 John 4:7

Day 20: Love Is Jesus Christ

While we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:6

Day 21: Love Is Satisfied in God

The Lord will continually guide you, and satisfy your desire. Isaiah 58:11

Day 22: Love Is Faith

I will betroth you to Me in faithfulness. Then you will know the Lord. Hosea 2:20

Day 23: Love Always Protects

[Love] always protects. 1 Corinthians 13:7 NIV

Day 24: Love vs. Lust

The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God will live forever. 1 John 2:17

Day 25: Love Forgives

What I have forgiven, if I have forgiven anything, I did it for your sake in the presence of Christ. 2 Corinthians 2:10

Day 26: Love Is Responsible

When you judge another, you condemn yourself, since you, the judge, do the same things. Romans 2:1 HCSB

Day 27: Love Encourages

Guard my soul and deliver me; do not let me be ashamed, for I take refuge in You. Psalm 25:20

Day 28: Love Makes Sacrifices

He laid down His life for us. We should also lay down our lives for our brothers. 1 John 3:16 HCSB

Day 29: Love's Motivation

Render service with a good attitude, as to the Lord and not to men. Ephesians 6:7 HCSB

Day 30: Love Brings Unity

Father, keep them in your name, the name which You have given Me, that they may be one even as We are. John 17:11

Day 31: Love And Marriage

Aman shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24

Day 32: Love Meets Sexual Needs

The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 1 Corinthians 7:3

Day 33: Love Completes Each Other

If two lie down together they keep warm, but how can one be warm alone? Ecclesiastes 4:11

Day 34: Love Celebrates Godliness

[Love] does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. 1 Corinthians 13:6

Day 35: Love Is Accountable

Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. Proverbs 15:22 NIV

Day 36: Love Is God's Word

Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. Psalm 119:105

Day 37: Love Agrees In Prayer

If two of you agree on earth about anything that they may ask, it shall be done for them by My Father. Matthew 18:9

Day 38: Love Fulfils Dreams

Delight yourself in the Lord; and He will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4

Day 39: Love Endures

Love never fails. 1 Corinthian 13:8

Day 40: Love Is A Covenant

Where you go, I will go and where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God. Ruth 1:16